Advice For Our Graduates

What advice would you give a graduating high school senior? What have you learned that you wish you knew back then? Of course, no self-respecting senior would want to hear any advice from those older and wiser--the whole point of life is to figure it out for one's self.

But, since I was invited to a high school graduation party, it did make me think about the life lessons that have made me the person I am today. Many of those lessons were painful, as they often are and I don't know if they're anything I could have been prepared for ahead of time. Also, some I learned from other's experiences (so don't go reading too much into them, people!). Nevertheless, here are the life lessons I wish someone told me.

Ten Lessons For Life

10. Sexual attraction and love are NOT the same thing. Learn to tell the difference.

9. Not everybody you meet has your best interest at heart.

8. Your parents want what's best for you but don't necessarily know what that is.

7. Don't get a credit card until gainfully employed in a self-supporting job, and only then use it for emergencies.

6. The morning-after pill is your friend, but hope you never need to be introduced.

5. Finish school before getting married and starting a family.

4. Using illegal drugs is a waste of time and money.

3. Learn to listen to your inner voice; it does know what's best for you.

2. You are irreplaceable to those who love you; don't squander their trust and affection.

1. Find compassion for the mistakes you make and for the mistakes of those who hurt you; we're all in this life together.

Happy Graduation!